KEEPING IT SPICY ~
After being married for 10 years, spice is sometimes not only hard to come by, we forget we even need it:)
In my opinion, spicy relationships depend on the couple. Some need the whole red pepper and some just need a fleck of pepper. For me, when my hubby says certain things in passing or via text, it sets me off and ignites that flame once again. I can honestly say that he is the one who realizes when we need to relight that fire. I get so caught up in daily life with the kids, work, house…you get my drift.
I can recall one thing in particular he said to me and I completely fell in love all over again. I had gone out of town for a couple of days and he called me on the second day and said, “I miss your footprints on the bath mat.” I mean, it was so simple, yet those words have stuck with me for years. It’s the little sparks like this that keep the spice in our marriage.
Watching him playing the father role really does it for me as well. I mean, come on, is there anything sexier than a man playing with dolls with his toddlers or blowing bubbles so his little girls can catch them?
Maybe I’m too simple, but the spice in my life comes from many subtle things, but the combination is explosive:)
So, how do you keep the spice in your love life? Leave your answer and be entered to win an autographed book from Jules Bennett!
About the author
When Jules isn’t creating tempting heroes and plotting their happily ever afters, she is taking care of her 2 little girls (ages 4 and 19 months), spending time with her hubby of 10 years and working part-time in a busy salon.
Jules has written contemporary romance and erotic romance (under the pen name Sophia Rae) for The Wild Rose Press and Samhain Publishing.
In March ’10, Jules will have her debut release from Silhouette Desire, Seducing the Enemy’s Daughter and the follow-up in April, The Making of Mrs. Stone. In June, Jules will join fellow author Lori Foster and others in an anthology from Berkley, The Gift of Love. She loves to hear from readers.
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About the book – Seducing the Enemy’s Daughter (March 2010)
Trying to pull her family’s resort, Lani Kaimana, which translates to Royal Diamond, out of financial ruins is Samantha DONOVAN’S last attempt to gain her father’s respect and a place in his company.
Brady Stone is out for revenge and he has one agenda…destroy the Donovan Corporation and any Donovan who stands in his way.
But Brady isn’t expecting the sexy, savvy businesswoman Samantha turns out to be.
Now his plans are shot to hell and he must rework his vendetta. But what will win in the end…business or pleasure?
We try to keep the spice in our life by traveling. Last year we took an Alaskan cruise, and this year we went to London.
Cheryl,
That sounds wonderful! Anything to break up the mundane lifestyle we can get ourselves into really does wonders for relationships:)
Hugs,
Jules
Jules, I loved your story about your husband playing dolls with your girls! I’ve seen your husband and he’s not girly at all, so the image is really cool!:) xo, Leanne
It is sweet to see a husband/dad playing with his little girls! It’s a memory that they will all cherish for a lifetime. Thanks for stopping by Leanne! It’s great to have you here.
Thanks, Leanne! You should see him wresting on the floor with two little ones on his back…I just love him to pieces:)
Thanks for stopping by!
Jules
Jules, you sound like you definitely have a winner! It has been a pleasure to have you as a part of this tour! I wish you much success in all that you do!
Hi Jules, it is a pleasure to meet you and have you share some great advice about keeping relationships spicy on the tour! I believe you hit the nail on the head when you said, “Maybe I’m too simple, but the spice in my life comes from many subtle things, but the combination is explosive:)”
It is those little subtle little things we say and do that keeps things fresh and spicy in our relationships
Great article!
Yes it is. Sometimes we don’t place enough emphasis on the simple and subtle. I know that is what makes me happy. Marlive, it’s been so great having you here during the tour! I really appreciate it!
Ahhhh sis you are so sweet; you’re welcome! I may be busy like crazy these days, but I would not have missed supporting you as you have done through the years for me. Smooches!
Aw, Jules, your husband sounds wonderful
It really is the simple things… my bf lives in another state at the moment and to help keep the spark alive we like to go on long distance dates… for example, on one date, I made sure we had the same dvd and watched it together from our own homes
I like to send him cards just to let him know I care.
He loves to keep me a part of his life and will send me pics over the phone showing me what he’s up to at the moment
Awww….how sweet Ali! Keeping the spark alive across long distances is hard, but it looks you & your bf are doing a great job at it! Thanks for stopping by and sharing your story.
Hi Jules:
Wonderful post!!
You are so right. Those simply things will set off a blaze you’ll never wnat to put out.
Hold on it that man. He’s a winner!!
Take good care. . .
I totally agree!
My guy loves to do stuff at the spur of the moment and I’m more of a planner. The spur of the moment type stuff does keep it spicy